Self-esteem is a term used in
psychology to reflect a
person's
overall emotional evaluation of his or her own worth. It is a judgment
of oneself as well as an attitude toward the self. Self-esteem
encompasses
beliefs (for example, "I am competent," "I am worthy") and
emotions such as triumph,
despair,
pride and
shame. Smith and Mackie define it by saying "The self-concept is what we think
about the self; self-esteem, is the positive or negative evaluations of
the self, as in how we feel about it." Self-esteem is also known as the evaluative dimension of the self that
includes feelings of worthiness, prides and discouragement. One's self-esteem is also closely associated with
self-consciousness.
Self-esteem is a disposition that a person has which represents their judgments of their own worthiness. In the mid-1960s, Morris Rosenberg and social-learning theorists defined self-esteem as a personal worth or worthiness.
Nathaniel Branden
in 1969 defined self-esteem as "the experience of being competent to
cope with the basic challenges of life and being worthy of happiness."
According to Branden, self-esteem is the sum of
self-confidence
(a feeling of personal capacity) and self-respect (a feeling of
personal worth). It exists as a consequence of the implicit judgment
that every person has of their ability to face life's challenges, to
understand and solve problems, and their right to achieve
happiness, and be given respect.
As a social psychological construct, self-esteem is attractive
because researchers have conceptualized it as an influential predictor
of relevant outcomes, such as academic achievement (Marsh 1990) or
exercise behavior (Hagger et al. 1998). In addition, self-esteem has
also been treated as an important outcome due to its close relation with
psychological well-being (Marsh 1989). Self-esteem can apply
specifically to a particular dimension (for example, "I believe I am a
good writer and I feel happy about that") or a global extent (for
example, "I believe I am a bad person, and feel bad about myself in
general"). Psychologists usually regard self-esteem as an enduring
personality characteristic ("trait" self-esteem), though normal,
short-term variations ("state" self-esteem) also exist. Synonyms or
near-synonyms of self-esteem include: self-worth,
self-regard,
self-respect, and self-integrity.
Theories
Many early theories suggested that self-esteem is a basic human need or motivation. American psychologist
Abraham Maslow
included self-esteem in his hierarchy of needs. He described two
different forms of esteem: the need for respect from others, and the
need for self-respect, or inner self-esteem. Respect from others entails recognition, acceptance, status, and
appreciation, and was believed to be more fragile and easily lost than
inner self-esteem. According to Maslow, without the fulfillment of the
self-esteem need, individuals will be driven to seek it and unable to
grow and obtain
self-actualization.
Modern theories of self-esteem explore the reasons humans are motivated to maintain a high regard for themselves.
Sociometer theory maintains that self-esteem evolved to check one's level of status and acceptance in ones'
social group. According to
terror management theory, self-esteem serves a protective function and reduces anxiety about life and death.
The importance of self-esteem lies in the fact that it concerns to
ourselves, the way we are and the sense of our personal value. Thus, it
affects the way we are and act in the world and the way we are related
to everybody else. Nothing in the way we think, feel, decide and act
escapes the influence of self-esteem.
Abraham Maslow, in his
hierarchy of human needs,
describes the "need for esteem," which is divided into two aspects, the
esteem for oneself self-love, self-confidence, skill, aptitude, and
respect receives from other people recognition, success, etc. The
healthiest expression of self-esteem, according to Maslow, "is the one
which manifests in respect we deserve for others, more than renown, fame
and flattery".
Carl Rogers, the greatest exponent of
humanistic psychology,
exposed that the origin of problems for many people despise themselves
and they consider themselves to be unvaluable and unworthy of being
loved; thus the importance he/she gave to unconditional acceptance of
client.
Indeed, the concept of self-esteem is approached since then in
humanistic psychology as an inalienable right for every person,
summarized in the following sentence:
| “ |
Every human
being, with no exception, for the mere fact to be it, is worthy of
unconditional respect of everybody else; he deserves to esteem himself
and to be esteemed. | ” |
By virtue of this reason, even the evil human beings deserve respect
and considered treatment. This attitude, nonetheless, does not pretend
to come into conflict with mechanisms that society has at its
disposition to prevent individuals from causing hurt – of any type – to
others.
Development
Experiences in a person's life are a major source of self-esteem
development. The positive or negative life experiences one has, creates
attitudes toward the self which can be favourable and develop positive
feelings of self-worth, or can be unfavourable and develop negative
feelings of self-worth. In the early years of a child's life, parents
are the most significant influence on self-esteem and the main source of
positive and/or negative experiences a child will have. The emphasis of
unconditional love, in parenting how-to books, represents the
importance of a child developing a stable sense of being cared for and
respected. These feelings translate into later effects of self-esteem as
the child grows older.
During the school years, academic achievement is a significant
contributor to self-esteem development. A student consistently achieving
success or consistently failing, strongly affects their individual
self-esteem. Social experiences are another important contributor. As children go
through school they begin to understand and recognize differences
between themselves and their classmates. Using social comparisons,
children assess whether they did better or worse than classmates in
different activities. These comparisons play an important role in
shaping the child's self-esteem and influence the positive or negative
feelings they have about themselves.
As children go through adolescence peer influence becomes much more
important, as adolescents make appraisals of themselves based on their
relationships with close friends.
Successful relationships among friends is very important to the
development of high self-esteem for children. Social acceptance brings
about confidence and produces high self-esteem, whereas rejection from
peers and loneliness brings about self-doubts and produces low
self-esteem.
Parenting style can also play a crucial role in self-esteem
development. Students in elementary school who have high self-esteem
tend to have parents who are caring, supportive adults who set clear
standards for their child and allow them to voice their opinion in
decision making. Although studies thus far have reported only a
correlation of warm, supportive parenting styles and children having
high self-esteem it could easily be thought of as having some causal
effect in self-esteem development.
Childhood experiences that contribute to healthy self-esteem include
being listened to, being spoken to respectfully, receiving appropriate
attention and affection and having accomplishments recognized and
mistakes or failures acknowledged and accepted. Experiences that
contribute to low self-esteem include being harshly criticized, being
physically, sexually or emotionally abused, being ignored, ridiculed or
teased or being expected to be "perfect" all the time.
Longitudinal study
A study done by Ruth Yasemin Erol and Ulrich Orth from the
University of Basel
examined the development of self-esteem in adolescence and young
adulthood. The aim of the study was to determine the trajectory of
self-esteem development; as in when does self-esteem development occur
in life and in what direction. Another aspect of the study was to
discover potential modifiers to individual differences in self-esteem
development after recording trajectories. It was expected that
self-esteem development would continuously increase during adolescence
and young adulthood as per previous studies' results.
Erol and Orth found that self-esteem increases moderately through
adolescence and continues to increase in young adulthood at a slower
rate. A high sense of mastery, low risk taking and better overall health
predicted higher self- esteem in participants at each age level.
Emotionally stable, extroverted and conscientious participants
experienced higher self-esteem as well. An individual's sense of mastery
proved to be an important moderator of self-esteem trajectory for all
participants. In the case of ethnicity playing a role in self-esteem
differences, Hispanics had a lower rating of self-esteem in adolescence
than Blacks and Whites but then increased to having a stronger, higher
self-esteem than Whites by the age of 30. This study showed no results
depicting a significant difference between self-esteem trajectories of
men and women. The findings of this research, in regards to self-esteem
trajectory, is consistent with what is known about the life span
development of self-esteem. Erol and Orth's study documents the
importance of adolescence as a possible critical period for self-esteem
development. This studies results can lend itself to the implementation
of self-esteem improvement interventions in young children.
Self-evaluation
Self-esteem requires "a self-evaluation process in which individuals
compare their description of themselves as they are (Real Self) with
their description of themselves as they would like to become (Ideal
Self) and as they fear becoming (Dreaded Self)." Self-esteem depends on living up to one's ideals.
Self-evaluation is important because the subject is able to assess
what they know, what they do not know and what they would like to know.
They begin to recognize their own strengths and weaknesses, and will be
able to set goals that they know they can attain with the new knowledge
they have about themselves.
Development
There are four levels of self-evaluation development in relation to
the Real Self, Ideal Self, and the Dreaded Self. The Real, Ideal, and
Dreaded Selves develop in a sequential pattern on cognitive levels
(moral judgment stages, ego development stages, and self-understanding).
- Individuals describe their Real, Ideal, and Dreaded Selves with stereotypical labels, such as "nice" or "bad". Individuals describe their Ideal and Real Selves in terms of disposition for action or as behavioural habits. The Dreaded Self is often described as being unsuccessful or as having bad habits
- Individuals describe their Ideal and Real Selves in terms of traits that are based in attitudes as well as actions. The Dreaded Self are often described as have failed to meet social expectations or as self-centered.
- Individuals describe their Ideal and Real Selves as
having a unified identity or character. Descriptions of the Dreaded Self
focus on a failure to live up to one's ideals or role expectations
often because of real world problems
Development brings with it increasingly complicated and encompassing
moral demands. As individuals develop their depiction of their Dreaded
Selves become increasingly more realistic and more plausible.
Types
Positive
People with a healthy level of self-esteem:
- Firmly believe in certain values and principles, and are ready to
defend them even when finding opposition, feeling secure enough to
modify them in light of experience.
- Are able to act according to what they think to be the best choice,
trusting their own judgment, and not feeling guilty when others don't
like their choice.
- Do not lose time worrying excessively about what happened in the
past, nor about what could happen in the future. They learn from the
past and plan for the future, but live in the present intensely.
- Fully trust in their capacity to solve problems, not hesitating
after failures and difficulties. They ask others for help when they need
it.
- Consider themselves equal in dignity to others, rather than inferior
or superior, while accepting differences in certain talents, personal
prestige or financial standing.
- Take for granted that they are an interesting and valuable person
for others, at least for those with whom they have a friendship.
- Resist manipulation, collaborate with others only if it seems appropriate and convenient.
- Admit and accept different internal feelings and drives, either
positive or negative, revealing those drives to others only when they
choose.
- Are able to enjoy a great variety of activities.
- Are sensitive to feelings and needs of others; respect generally
accepted social rules, and claim no right or desire to prosper at
others' expense.
- Can work toward finding solutions and voice discontent without belittling themselves or others when challenges arise.
Secure vs. defensive
A person can have a high self-esteem and hold it confidently where
they do not need reassurance from others to maintain their positive self
view, whereas others with defensive, high self-esteem may still report
positive self-evaluations on the Rosenberg Scale, as all high
self-esteem individuals do; however, their positive self-views are
fragile and vulnerable to criticism. Defensive high self-esteem
individuals internalize subconscious self-doubts and insecurities
causing them to react very negatively to any criticism they may receive.
There is a need for constant positive feedback from others for these
individuals to maintain their feelings of self-worth. The necessity of
repeated praise can be associated with boastful, arrogant behavior or
sometimes even aggressive and hostile feelings toward anyone who
questions the individual's self-worth, an example of threatened egotism.
Implicit, explicit, narcissism, and threatened egotism
Implicit self-esteem
refers to a person's disposition to evaluate themselves positively or
negatively in a spontaneous, automatic, or unconscious manner. It
contrasts with
explicit self-esteem,
which entails more conscious and reflective self-evaluation. Both
explicit self-esteem and implicit self-esteem are subtypes of
self-esteem proper.
Narcissism
is a disposition people may have that represents an excessive love for
one's self. It is characterized by an inflated view of self-worth.
Individuals who score high on Narcissism measures, Robert Raskin's
40 Item True or False Test, would likely select true to such statements as "If I ruled the world, it would be a much better place." There is only a moderate correlation between narcissism and self-esteem;
that is to say that an individual can have high self-esteem but low
narcissism or can be a conceited, obnoxious person and score high
self-esteem and high narcissism.
Threatened Egotism is characterized as a response to criticism that
threatens the ego of narcissists; they often react in a hostile and
aggressive manner.
Low self-esteem
Low self-esteem can result from various factors, including genetic
factors, physical appearance or weight, mental health issues,
socioeconomic status, peer pressure or bullying.
A person with low self-esteem may show some of the following characteristics:
- Heavy self-criticism and dissatisfaction.
- Hypersensitivity to criticism with resentment against critics and feelings of being attacked.
- Chronic indecision and an exaggerated fear of mistakes.
- Excessive will to please and unwillingness to displease any petitioner.
- Perfectionism, which can lead to frustration when perfection is not achieved.
- Neurotic guilt, dwelling on and/or exaggerating the magnitude of past mistakes.
- Floating hostility and general defensiveness and irritability without any proximate cause.
- Pessimism and a general negative outlook.
- Envy, invidiousness, or general resentment.
- Sees temporary setbacks as permanent, intolerable conditions.
When given negative feedback, individuals with low self-esteem often
take it personally, and can be devastated by it. This damage can be much
more severe if the feedback is harsh or directly criticizes the
individual's worth, moral character, achievements, etc. Individuals with
low self-esteem are very critical of themselves and depend on the
approval and praise of others for their own evaluation of
self-worthiness. They believe that a person's approval of them is
dependent on their performance, whether it be academic, relationship,
etc. People with low self-esteem view their likeability in terms of
successes: others will accept them if they succeed but will not if they
fail.
Measurement
Self-esteem is typically assessed using a
self-report inventory yielding a score on a continuous scale from low to high self-esteem.
Among the most widely used instruments, the Rosenberg (1965) 10-item
self-esteem scale scores each item on a four-point response system that
requires participants to indicate their level of agreement with a series
of statements about themselves. An alternative measure, The Coopersmith
Inventory uses a 50-question battery over a variety of topics and asks
subjects whether they rate someone as similar or dissimilar to
themselves.
If a subject's answers demonstrate solid self-regard, the scale
regards them as well adjusted. If those answers reveal some inner shame,
it considers them to be prone to social deviance.
More recently, implicit measures of self-esteem have begun to be used. These rely on indirect measures of
cognitive processing thought to be linked to implicit self-esteem, including the
Name Letter Task Such indirect measures are designed to reduce awareness of, or control
of, the process of assessment. When used to assess implicit self-esteem,
they feature stimuli designed to represent the
self, such as personal pronouns (e.g., "I") or characters in one's name.
Importance
Abraham Maslow
states that psychological health is not possible unless the essential
core of the person is fundamentally accepted, loved and respected by
others and by her or his self. Self-esteem allows people to face life
with more confidence, benevolence and optimism, and thus easily reach
their goals and self-actualize. It allows a person to be more ambitious, but not with respect to possessions or success, but with respect to what they can experience
emotionally,
creatively and
spiritually.
To develop self-esteem is to increase the capacity to be happy;
self-esteem may make people convinced they deserve
happiness.
Understanding this is fundamental, and universally beneficial, since
the development of positive self-esteem increases the capacity to treat
other people with respect, benevolence and goodwill, thus favoring rich
interpersonal relationships and avoiding destructive ones.For
Erich Fromm,
love
of others and love of ourselves are not alternatives. On the contrary,
an attitude of love toward themselves will be found in all those who are
capable of loving others.Self-esteem allows
creativity at the workplace, and is a specially critical condition for
teaching professions.
José-Vicente Bonet claims that the importance of self-esteem is
obvious as a lack of self-esteem is, he says, not a loss of esteem from
others, but self-rejection. Bonet claims that this corresponds to
Major depressive disorder.
Freud
also claimed that the depressive has suffered "an extraordinary
diminution in his self-regard, an impoverishment of his ego on a grand
scale....He has lost his self-respect".
The Yogyakarta Principles, a document on
international human rights law addresses the discriminatory attitude toward
LGBT peoples that makes their self-esteem low to be subject to human rights violation including
human trafficking.and
World Health Organization
recommends in "Preventing Suicide" published in 2000 that strengthening
students' self-esteem is important to protect children and adolescents
against mental distress and despondency, enabling them to cope
adequately with difficult and stressful life situations. How this might be done, and whether it would be effective is unclear.
Other than increased happiness, higher self-esteem is also known to
be correlated with a better ability to cope with stress and a higher
likeliness that the individual takes on difficult tasks relative to
those with low self-esteem.
Correlates
From the late 1970s to the early 1990s many Americans assumed as a
matter of course that students' self-esteem acted as a critical factor
in the grades that they earn in school, in their
relationships
with their peers, and in their later success in life. Under this
assumption, some American groups created programs which aimed to
increase the self-esteem of students. Until the 1990s little
peer-reviewed and controlled research took place on this topic.
Peer-reviewed research undertaken since then has not validated
previous assumptions. Recent research indicates that inflating students'
self-esteem in and of itself has no positive effect on grades. One
study has shown that inflating self-esteem by itself can actually
decrease grades. The relationship involving self-esteem and academic results does not
signify that high self-esteem contributes to high academic results. It
simply means that high self-esteem may be accomplished due to high
academic performance due to the other variables of social interactions
and life events affecting this performance.
"Attempts by pro-esteem advocates to encourage self-pride in students
solely by reason of their uniqueness as human beings will fail if
feelings of well-being are not accompanied by well-doing. It is only
when students engage in personally meaningful endeavors for which they
can be justifiably proud that self-confidence grows, and it is this
growing self-assurance that in turn triggers further achievement."
High self-esteem correlates highly with self-reported happiness; whether this is a causal relationship has not been established. The relationship between self-esteem and life satisfaction is stronger in individualistic cultures.
Additionally, self-esteem has been found to be related to forgiveness
in close relationships, in that people with high self-esteem will be
more forgiving than people with low self-esteem.
Criticism and controversy
The American psychologist
Albert Ellis criticized on numerous occasions the concept of self-esteem as essentially self-defeating and ultimately destructive.
Although acknowledging the human propensity and tendency to ego rating
as innate, he has critiqued the philosophy of self-esteem as
unrealistic, illogical and self- and socially destructive – often doing
more harm than good. Questioning the foundations and usefulness of
generalized ego strength, he has claimed that self-esteem is based on
arbitrary definitional
premises, and over-generalized, perfectionistic and grandiose thinking. Acknowledging that rating and valuing behaviours and characteristics is
functional and even necessary, he sees rating and valuing human beings'
totality and total selves as irrational and unethical. The healthier
alternative to self-esteem according to him is unconditional self-
acceptance and unconditional other-acceptance.
Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy is a psychotherapy based on this approach.
Psychologist Roy F. Baumeister and journalist John Tierney argue that
the benefits of self-esteem can be significantly counter-productive,
and that parental guidance towards self-esteem may thwart actual
practices of self-control.
- "There seem to be only two clearly demonstrated benefits of high
self-esteem....First, it increases initiative, probably because it lends
confidence. People with high self-esteem are more willing to act on
their beliefs, to stand up for what they believe in, to approach others,
to risk new undertakings. (This unfortunately includes being extra
willing to do stupid or destructive things, even when everyone else
advises against them.)...It can also lead people to ignore sensible
advice as they stubbornly keep wasting time and money on hopeless
causes"
False stereotypes
For a person with low self-esteem any positive stimulus or incentive
will make him feel comfortable, or, at most, better with respect to
himself/herself for just some time. Therefore, possessions, sex,
success, or physical appearance, by themselves, will produce comfort, or
a false and ephemeral development of self-esteem, but they will not
really strengthen confidence and respect to oneself.
As narcissism
Life satisfaction, happiness, healthy behavioral practices,
perceived efficacy,
and academic success and adjustment have been associated with having
high levels of self-esteem (Harter, 1987; Huebner, 1991;
Lipschitz-Elhawi & Itzhaky, 2005; Rumberger 1995; Swenson &
Prelow, 2005; Yarcheski & Mahon, 1989).
However, a common mistake is to think that
loving oneself is necessarily equivalent to
narcissism, as opposed for example to what
Erik Erikson speaks of as "a post-narcissistic love of the ego".
A person with a healthy self-esteem accepts and loves himself/herself
unconditionally, acknowledging both virtues and faults in the self, and
yet, in spite of everything, is able to continue to love her/himself.
In Narcissists, by contrast, an "innate uncertainty about their own
worth gives rise to...a self-protective, but often totally spurious,
aura of
grandiosity"–
producing the class "of narcissists, or people with very high, but
insecure, self-esteem... fluctuating with each new episode of social
praise or rejection." Narcissism can thus be seen as a symptom of fundamentally low
self-esteem, that is, lack of love towards oneself, but often
accompanied by "an immense increase in self-esteem" based on "the
defense mechanism of denial by overcompensation." "idealized love of self...rejected the part of him" that he denigrates – "this destructive little child" within. Instead, the narcissist emphasizes his virtues in the presence
of others, just to try to convince himself that he is a valuable person
and to try to stop feeling ashamed for his faults;
unfortunately such "people with unrealistically inflated self-views,
which may be especially unstable and highly vulnerable to negative
information,...tend to have poor social skills."
History
The
construct of self-esteem (or
self-concept) dates back to
William James, in the late 19th century. In his work
Principles of Psychology
(1890), James studied the splitting of our "global self" into "knower
self" and "known self." According to James, from this splitting, which
we all are more or less aware of, self-esteem is born.
In the 20th century, the initial influence of
Behaviorism minimized introspective study of
mental processes,
emotions and
feelings, which was replaced by objective study through
experiments on
behaviors observed in relation with environment. Behaviorism placed the
human being as an
animal subject to
reinforcements, and suggested placing
psychology as an
experimental science, similar to
chemistry or
biology. As a consequence,
clinical trials on self-esteem were overlooked, since behaviorists considered the idea less liable to rigorous
measurement hypothesis.
In the mid-20th century,
Phenomenology and humanistic psychotherapy made self-esteem gain prominence again, and it took a central role in personal
self-actualization and in the treatment of psychic disorders. Psychologists started to consider personal satisfaction and
psychotherapy,
and new elements were introduced, which helped to understand the
reasons why people tend to feel less worthy, discouraged and unable to
understand challenges by themselves.
Carl Rogers (1902-1987), the greatest exponent of
humanistic psychology, exposed his theory about unconditional acceptance and self-acceptance as the best way to improve self-esteem.
Robert B. Burns regards self-esteem as a collection of an individual's attitudes toward himself. The
human being perceives itself at a
sensory level;
thinks about itself and about its
behavior, and evaluates both its behavior and itself. Consequently, humans feel
emotions
related to themselves. These emotions prompt behavioral tendencies
aimed at oneself, at one's behavior, and at the features of one's body
and character. These tendencies effect the attitudes which, globally, we
call self-esteem. Thus, self-esteem, for Burns, is the evaluative
perception
of oneself. In his own words, an "individual's behavior is the result
of his environment's particular interpretation, whose focus is himself".
The
core self-evaluations approach includes self-esteem as one of four dimensions that comprise one's fundamental appraisal of oneself, along with
locus of control,
neuroticism, and
self-efficacy. The concept of core self-evaluations as first examined by Judge, Locke, and Durham (1997), has since proven to have the ability to predict several work outcomes, specifically, job satisfaction and job performance.
Self-esteem may, in fact, be one of the most essential core
self-evaluation dimensions because it is the overall value one feels
about oneself as a person.The idea of the importance of self-esteem - especially in
education - has gained endorsement from some government and non-government groups, such that one can speak of a self-esteem movement.
Further reading
- Branden, N. (1969). The Psychology of Self-Esteem. New York: Bantam.
- Branden, N. (2001). The psychology of self-esteem: a revolutionary approach to self-understanding that launched a new era in modern psychology. San Francisco: Jossey-Bass, 2001. ISBN 0-7879-4526-9
- Burke, C. (2008)"Self-esteem: Why?; Why not?," N.Y. 2008
- Franklin, Richard L. (1994). "Overcoming The Myth of Self-Worth: Reason and Fallacy in What You Say to Yourself." ISBN 0-9639387-0-3
- Hill, S.E. & Buss, D.M. (2006). "The Evolution of Self-Esteem." In Michael Kernis, (Ed.), Self Esteem: Issues and Answers: A Sourcebook of Current Perspectives.. Psychology Press:New York. 328-333. Full text
- Lerner, Barbara (1985). "Self-Esteem and Excellence: The Choice and the Paradox," American Educator, Winter 1985.
- Maslow A. H. (1987). Motivation and Personality (3rd ed.). New York: Harper & Row.
- Mecca, Andrew M., et al., (1989). The Social Importance of Self-esteem University of California Press, 1989. (ed; other editors included Neil J. Smelser and John Vasconcellos)
- Rodewalt, F. & Tragakis, M. W. (2003). "Self-esteem and self-regulation: Toward optimal studies of self-esteem." Psychological Inquiry, 14(1), 66–70.
- Ruggiero, Vincent R. (2000). "Bad Attitude: Confronting the Views That Hinder Student's Learning" American Educator.
- Sedikides, C., & Gregg. A. P. (2003). "Portraits of the self." In M. A. Hogg & J. Cooper (Eds.), Sage handbook of social psychology (pp. 110–138). London: Sage Publications.
- Twenge, Jean M. (2007). Generation Me: Why Today's Young Americans Are More Confident, Assertive, Entitled — and More Miserable Than Ever Before. Free Press. ISBN 978-0-7432-7698-6